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Negotiable Principles

© by the Reverend Dr. Byron E. Shafer

(Rutgers, January 30, 2000; 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year B)

Deuteronomy 18:15–20 (OT, p. 194); 

I Corinthians 8:1–13 (NT, pp. 178–179)

 

The English novelist Thomas Hardy approvingly described

one of his characters in this way [The Hand of Ethelberta, 1876]:

 “Like the British constitution, she owes her success in practice

to her inconsistencies in principle.”

My parents were nothing like Hardy’s character.

With them, principles really mattered,

principles were consistently applied,

and principles were absolutely non-negotiable.

One was to adhere to them—with no ifs, ands, or buts!

Among the principles that were in force during my childhood

in our strict Midwestern Protestant household were these:

no alcohol of any kind at any age;

no smoking;

no card playing (instead, we played Rook and Authors,

and one reason I loved to visit my cousin Harriet was

that she was allowed to play Canasta);

and no going to movies or parties on Sunday.

Some of these principles were argued from the Bible—

such as the Keep-the-Sabbath-Day-Holy ones—

but others—like no alcohol, no smoking, no card playing—

were just argued, without benefit of the Bible.

Indeed, when I was feeling particularly mischievous,

I would quote the Bible against my parents,

reminding them that Jesus drank wine at meals

and that the First Letter to Timothy says (5:23),

 “No longer drink only water, but take

a little wine for the sake of your stomach

and your frequent ailments.”

Ah, the injustice of it all! 

My parents sent me to Sunday School to learn verses like that,

but when I quoted them, they didn’t give me any credit at all.

I seem to remember them muttering something about

their stomachs feeling just fine, thank you very much,

and about their not having frequent ailments anyway,

+ about water in Jesus’s day being quite unhealthy.

Upon reflection, I’m certain that our household was governed

not just by negative principles but by positive ones as well—

like love God, and love your neighbor,

and do unto others as you would have others do unto you—

but somehow it’s the negative ones I remember best,

probably because the principles one internalizes

are not so memorable as those one rebels against,

the principles one accepts are not so remarkable

as those one tries to negotiate.

The biggest fight I ever had with my parents occurred when I tried

to negotiate one of our household’s absolute principles,

the one about “no going to movies or parties on Sunday.”

I had been invited to a once-in-a-lifetime event.

I was in a mid-year eighth-grade graduating class of 13 kids

at a public elementary school in Chicago, Illinois.

It was January, 1952, and, come February, we would all be

moving on to 9th grade in a large, anonymous high school.

Everyone knew that Jacqueline Alt was the richest kid in our class,

and that was proven when all 12 of the rest of us received

an invitation from her parents to be their guests for a

graduation party featuring a fancy lunch and ice show at

the elegant Conrad Hilton Hotel—

but here's the catch, on a Sunday afternoon.

I hoped beyond hope that for such a special treat as this

our household’s Sunday rule would prove negotiable.

But as it turned out, it didn’t,

and I was the only kid in the class who wasn’t there.

Even my best friend, Bobby Slack, who was Salvation Army

and whose mother was usually much more strict than mine,

wound up going—but not me.

And ever since then, I’ve looked pretty favorably on situation ethics!

One of the great ethical debates among people of faith today,

one within our own denomination, concerns the issue of on what

basis Christians should determine how to act.   Should

Christians act on the basis of absolute principles alone,

or should we act with a view toward achieving goals,

or should we act from some flexible combination of

concern for principles, contexts, and worthy goals.

Choices among these three ways of determining the best course of

action confront every person almost everyday, almost everywhere.

Certainly that’s the case in business + politics here in the US.

For example in these weeks leading up to the South Carolina primary,

principle does not seem to have been involved at all in the decision

by George Bush and John McCain to come out in support of

flying the confederate battle flag over S.C.’s statehouse—

the battle flag that represents the waging of bloody war

in defense of the institution of slavery

+ in opposition to the continued unity of our nation.

So far as I can tell, the decisions by Bush + McCain were made

solely in service to the pragmatic goal of receiving the most

ballots possible from that state’s Republican voters. 

In a second example, the State of New Jersey did act on an absolute

principle—not supporting genocide—when it decided to divest

itself of all shares in its portfolios of the Talisman Corp. For

that oil company is complicit in the Government of Sudan’s

warfare against the tribal groups in its southern regions.

And finally, in a third recent case coming from business and politics,

we encounter a decision that involved negotiating a principle,

that required a politician to balance one of his principles with

his concern for healthy outcomes in particular situations.

John McCain is opposed in principle to abortion,

yet he has now announced that he will support

a woman’s right to choose in those cases where

she has been raped or her life is in jeopardy.

Well, in business, in politics, in personal life,

how are we to go about choosing what we should do?

On the basis of absolute principles?

On the basis of how effectively to achieve certain goals?

Or on the basis of some flexible balancing of principles

+ goals in light of particular circumstances + situations?

I think my remarks have already suggested to you

that I’m inclined to the third way rather than to the first two,

that I favor a flexible negotiating of principles and goals

in light of particular circumstances and situations.

Why do I not favor as the best basis for making ethical choices

the second way, focused on effectively attaining certain goals?

Well first, many goals are in and of themselves immoral,

or what we might call “unprincipled.”

Genocide is one example of an unprincipled end,

and any action that supports it, however indirectly,

including the passive holding of stock in a

company that’s “complicit” in it

cannot be moral.

And second, the end really does not justify the means—

which is to say that not every means even to a moral end

is itself moral. For example,

the goal of winning votes is not immoral.

But pandering to racial prejudice as a means

of winning votes—that is immoral!

And why do I not favor as the best basis for making ethical choices the

first way I mentioned, the way focused on

faithfully following absolute principles?

Well, I’ve shared with you something of my life experience.

What I haven’t yet told you is that long after 8th grade,

when I was in my thirties, my parents confided to me

that they had come to the opinion that

they had made a mistake in not letting me go to

that particular Sunday party 2 decades before.

But hey!  By that time, in the 1970s,

my parents were even playing bridge!

And why do I favor as the best basis for making ethical choices

the third way I mentioned, the flexibility to negotiate principles

goals in light of particular circumstances and situations?

Well, the Bible and Jesus himself

have something to do with my belief, including,

most relevantly, the two lessons that we read this morning.

The Book of Deuteronomy is first and foremost a law code,

a compilation of principles to be put into force.

And the authors of Deuteronomy sought to create and impose

a uniform Law of God, communicated through Moses

and to be lived out by all of God’s people.

Now prophecy was a phenomenon that was spontaneous.

It was uncontrolled and uncontrollable, making it

both a powerful instrument for change and renewal

and also a danger to all attempts at imposing on a people

religious conformity and orthodoxy.

Prophets, you see, sometimes introduce

fresh new understandings of God’s will,

ones not stated in previously existing principles.

But against the will and inclination of the authors of Deuteronomy,

these authors had to acknowledge in our lesson

that the role of the prophet,

with all of its spontaneity and unpredictability,

was in truth a valid and God-ordained office.

So from this morning's First Lesson, I would argue that

although it is easier + more comfortable for people of faith

to live by a canon of previously pronounced principles,

we need to leave room for fresh new insights

into what it is that God is seeking to accomplish

and how it is that that can best be brought to pass.

For example, how, apart from such fresh new

 “prophetic” insights, would we know God wills

for women’s roles in the church to be equal

to those of men and that God wills for us

to act against previously inherited

principle in order to make that so.

Our Second Lesson comes from the apostle Paul.

Now the particular ethical issue with which Paul is wrestling

is arcane and no longer on the church’s front burner, to say the

least—namely, may we eat meat sacrificed to idols—but the

overall issue of I Corinthians 8 is quite relevant to us.

For that issue is:  Should the actions of Christians

be based on abstract principles applied absolutely—

like the principle,

 “Food will not bring us close to God,”

therefore I may eat what I want when

I want to (period, end of discussion)”?

Or should Christians’ actions take into account what

would be loving in each particular situation—

so that the principle, context, + goal

are negotiated like this:

 “Although I may ordinarily eat what I want

when I want to, in this particular case

it would not be good to do that,

for some of those present might be

led to lapse back into polytheism”?

Paul will go on to say, just one chapter after our lesson (9:19–23),

that when he is with Jews he conforms to Jewish law and that

when he is not with Jews he does not conform to Jewish law.

Paul confesses that he himself negotiates

between principles and goals and contexts.

And that’s the approach to ethical decision making

that I believe it is wise for us to emulate,

for it allows us to make determinations like the following:

In many cases it is best to provide home health care

for parents who are ill,

but in some cases, under certain circumstances,

it is best to take them to a nursing facility.

The difficult thing about making ethical choices by negotiating

among principles + goals + contexts is that it’s a hard thing to do.

It requires constant and continuous ethical reflection,

and it does not allow easily for acting from habit.

Yet Jesus is our primary model,

and it is really he who calls us to this difficult task.

According to the principles of his time,

he ought not to have eaten with sinners, but he did anyway.

According to principle, he ought not to have touched lepers,

but he did.

According to principle, he ought not to have healed on the

sabbath, but he did

According to principle, he ought not to have taught women,

but he did.

According to principle, he ought not to have paid attention to

children, but he did.

According to principle, he ought not to have overthrown the

tables of the moneychangers, but he did.

Fresh expressions and understandings of God’s will do happen.

Difficult circumstances sometimes render valued principles

inapplicable or inappropriate.

Living by principles that are open-ended and negotiable

may be difficult to do,

but it is the collective wisdom of prophets, of Jesus, and of Paul

that it is this course of action that is the best.

 

Let us pray:

O God, give us the grace and the strength to bring to each new day the resolve and the flexibility to be able to think through how we should act before we act.   In the name of Christ, we pray.  Amen.




 

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